My Month: February 2013

How was your Febuary?

Love
Rebecca
xo

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#JanuaryJoy – Reflect

It’s January 31st and I’m sad #JanuaryJoy is over!

Todays prompt was to reflect. In a moment I’m going to share what I did for each of these prompts but really, for me, January Joy wasn’t about the individual activities but the overall feeling it has given me, and I hope some of you. There’s always a reason to feel under the weather, a hard day at work, miserable weather, life not working out the way you had planned. #JanuaryJoy was about making time for yourself, finding joy in the little things, feeling proud of things you can do, making the most of new experiences and fitting in things you never manage to prioritise. Prioritising is the key word – we all have a finite amount of time in the day and certain things can’t wait, work commitments, and hopefully family are pretty high up that list, but taking part in #JanuaryJoy has made me prioritise myself and ultimately my own happiness. It’s a resolution I’ll be keeping this year. ;)

So, how did my January Joy go?
1. I made some resolutions and am doing okay with them so far… more on this later.
2. #DryJanuary was tough, and I had a couple of slip-ups, or shall we say intentional ‘breaks’ but it has really changed my outlook on alcohol and I’m drinking so much less. I no longer head for the fridge after a stressful day and I’m feeling so much better for it.
3. Pete and I finally got our date on the 18th, better late than never! (We went here,)

4. Walks this months have been everywhere from my local walks in the Mersey Valley to the Elan Valley in Wales this weekend… many of them in the snow!

5. We talked skin care and I reminded you all to treat your spots properly – sharing my acne treatment.
6. Penny introduced me to Haim (who I later heard on Radio 2!)
7. I pledged to do more Yoga this year (and managed to do it for the first time last night!)


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8. I shared my plans for a grand trip this year and since then have plotted my route in South Africa – now to book the flights!
9. I went to the Movies, and saw Les Mis.

10. For a mid-month cheer up, I tried the silhouette or crescent moon manicure
11. I discovered The Glass Palace through Gemma’s reading recommendations for January
12. I updated you all on how Pete and I were getting on with our new financial arrangements and talked savings.
13. I’m getting my better-late-than-never hair cut today (hurrah)
14. I shared some medical know-how on how to prepare yourself for pregnancy if 2013 is the year you’ll be starting a family.

15. Meatless Monday saw me sharing my latest meat-free recipe
16. Now the temperatures have settled down, I might be able to get on with my Craft project!
17. I started on my photobook of our road trip last year.
18. For my clear out I tackled my shoes, purchasing new ikea boxes to store them in, and Michelle taught us how to tackle your whole wardrobe.
19. I planned a trip to the Opera, and Victoria shared her Girl about Town tips for nationwide culture.

20. My bread recipe sparked the idea of a monthly bread post.
21. The month ended with some me-time and TLC for our neglected winter bodies
22. And here we are, reflecting.

Now I’d love to hear how your January went – did you do any of the activities? (I know many of you did lots if not all of them!) Thank you so much if you got involved and watch out for a post soon rounding up all my favourite blog posts inspired by January Joy :)

Love,
Rebecca
xo

My Month: October

When I started looking through this months Instagram images for my October re-cap I realised I hadn’t taken as many as usual… probably a reflection of how busy this month has been. I’ve been  to London twice, once for the Cosmo Blog Awards, spent a weekend at home for my Mum’s birthday, the following weekend at my nephews Christening and the one after that marked the start of our holiday. Anyway, here’s a round up of the little things I’ve snapped this month. You’ll have to wait for more holiday updates!

  • First outing for my coloured tights this year.
  • Transitional dressing in primary brights.
  • Loving a pillar box red mani this Autumn.
  • My favourite new flats.
  • Make up essentials for a post workout touch up: Laura Mercier Tinted moisturiser, Smashbox High definition concealer, Bobbi Brown Pot Rouge and Extreme Party Mascara.
  • New High-tops.
  • No.7 Total Renewal Micro dermabrasion exfoliator (read my review here.)
  • Cosy winter socks
  • Oxblood Autumn outfit.
  • Choosing dresses for the Cosmo Blog Awards & choosing nail colours for a holiday manicure at Nails Inc.

  • My latest food obsession, porridge.
  • Cocktails with Mum and Francesca for her birthday.
  • Apples in my garden and cake for post Wedding dress shopping analysis at And the Dish ran away with the Spoon in Didsbury.

What have you been up to this month readers?

Love,
Rebecca
xo

My Month: September

It’s time to recap on my goings on this month and it’s a confused looking collection of images that’s for sure. We seem to have started the month in a hazy last tease of what summer could have been and ended it heading for the Ark, amidst the floods and storms. I hope you’re all safe and dry wherever you are reading this.

  • The standard bits of kit that go everywhere with me these days: x100, camera cable and charger, Macbook Pro and charger, phone charger.
  • What’s in the bag?!
  • The tipi wedding we attended at the beginning of the month.
  • The view from our hotel room at The Llawnroc in Cornwall – review coming soon!
  • Accessories laid out for the second wedding of the month: Kurt Geiger heels, Zara Clutch, Accessorize earrings.
  • Cocktails at sunset at the Aviator.
  • My two puss cats enjoying far too much time on the bed.
  • A gorgeous candle sent to me by Fox and Crow – more coming soon!
  • Re-discovering my leather jacket from Whistles - 2 years old and practically paying for itself in costs-per-wear. Psst! Did you know the Whistles 25% off with Grazia is on right now – you can buy online!
  • The catwalk at London Fashion Week.
  • Sunset on a glorious indian summers evening on route to Any Other Party (and Gemma & Anita, plus the AOW team.)
  • Pulling out all the stops in an effort to look less tired – Radiance primer, Bobbi brown shimmer brick and a ton of concealer!
  • Dressing up as Mario for my brother in laws fancy dress engagement party.
  • A new addition to our decor ;)

What have you been doing this month readers?

Love,
Rebecca
xo

All Change…

I’m not going to lie, this is probably one of the hardest posts I have ever had to write. I write it in fear of your disappointment but knowing that it has to be done.

I always strive for Florence Finds to be a reflection of real life, not a glorified glossy representation of the unattainable. I want it to inspire and reassure you that whatever woes you may have, there’s somebody else out there having it too. That’s the main message, with plenty of inspiration for improving all the textures of your life too. I have always felt strongly that I should practice what I preach. Recent posts I have written about work and life have meant that something has to change in mine, and it’s news of that that I’m sharing today.


Balancing Act silhouette portrait from thepairabirds on Etsy

You see I love Florence Finds, don’t for a second get me wrong on that or think I’m tiring of it. We’re not going anywhere :) But do I love it more than my husband, my family, my friends, my life? Of course not. I couldn’t. A lot of bloggers pay lip service to their chaotic, over stressed and over worked lives and the oft repeated mantra is that ‘they wouldn’t change a thing’. Well, I beg to differ. One of the best things about having Florence Finds is that I’m control of it, rather than it controlling me. So when the workload gets too much, I can say enough is enough.

You all know I took a temporary job recently with longer hours, and my reasons for doing it. As a result, I’d be lying if I thought I could keep the blog going at the pace I have so far. Actually, I totally could, I’ve done it before – earlier in the year I did the same job and just waded through every evening spent blogging. I actually wrote this post in mid-July, planning to make the change at the beginning of last month, then limped on. Not only did the lack of ‘down-time’ make me feel one dimensional, but I wasn’t happy with the content I was putting out. But do I want to do that again? No.

So, from this week, until (and if) there’s some semblance of change in the precarious balance that is life there will be 1 less post per week on Florence Finds. I asked for your feedback a while back with this in mind and carefully considered the responses. Of course there is no pleasing everyone but I hope the changes I’m making won’t be too much of a disappointment. Monday mornings will see a lighter post but no less addictive – ‘Monday Must-haves’, which will make it a little easier for me to get back on track after the weekend and also nicely fills a gap we had at Florence Finds for sharing single items of lust.

Friday is the other change you’ll see, but do not fear, it’s Friday Food that is going, not Frocks – I couldn’t do that to you! Food won’t be disappearing from these pages completely, rather making an appearance in the week whenever I have something to share. That way they will be a better reflection of my life and also coming to you from my own kitchen.

I also want to share another change that I’m making today. Some of you might have noted the change this morning to my right hand sidebar. Right at the top there you can see a larger than previous advert and that is because I have recently taken the decision to sign up with an advertising agency, Handpicked Media. Until now, I have treated Florence Finds with the professionalism that it and you, the readers deserved, but it has never in anyway been a business. I do use affiliate links, where they fit with pre-planned content and NEVER the other way around. I do not plan content to increase the links and potential revenue. To explain affiliate links to those of you who do not already know, some of the links I place on Florence Finds earn me a percentage of the sale on any purchases that are made when clicking through from the site. This varies between about 3-8% on average and that percentage comes from the brand, in no way affecting the cost of the item to the consumer. In fact you could argue that you get extra benefits from it as I promote discount days, flash sales and free delivery offers from the brands I am affiliated with if I think they are of any use. I have a similar arrangement with Amazon. I’m not going to go into pounds and pence but the earnings I get from this are in no way enough for me to a. be swayed into unethical behaviour or b. renumerate even a fraction of the time I spend on Florence Finds. Given how much effort I put in, I decided that joining an agency like Handpicked was the most sensible way to gain some return from my hard work and retain control over the content.

All the adverts you see on Florence Finds will be personally approved by me. They will always be something that I can see myself or the average Florence Finds reader being interested in, no cash for gold or online bingo adverts here. I may from time to time also accept sponsored posts, however once again they will always be personally selected and approved, in the interests of the reader and clearly marked as such.

Lastly, in the process of making these changes you will see the long column of brand adverts have been removed for now. In their place, I have added some new buttons to highlight prime content areas that I know you all enjoy. I took my cue from the feedback in this survey for the buttons and chose your favourite posts so when you’re in need of a little lifestyle inspiration, you can have a click through and browse your favourite area instantly.

I think that’s all for now folks. I’d love to hear your thoughts as always, good or bad and hope you’ll stick with me through the transition. My number one priority is ensuring the quality of the posts on Florence Finds and these small changes are going to make a big difference to me and my life, in turn helping me to do just that. Thanks readers, just for coming back and reading. I will never take that for granted.

Love,
Rebecca
xo

My Month: August

Last month, I decided to share just my outfits and I quite liked that format so it’s back this month too, but in a bumper edition. I realised I missed out on sharing one of my favourite things in life, food! And also where I had been. I know that half the fun of these posts is the being nosey so get yourself a cuppa (or something stronger if you’re reading this later on,) and step into my world for a little while…

  • Pancakes for breakfast (recipe here)
  • Cocktails with my sister at my favourite bar in Manchester, The Alchemist
  • All ready for my burger at a BBQ in Southport
  • Asparagus and Gruyere tart – so simple and so delicious.
  • My first bakewell tart.
  • Trying the new no-bread Pret duck and hoi sin sauce sandwich
  • Drinking too much wine. Just too much. All month.

  • Brit Mil Fit clothes…
  • Rocking the brogues, love them with my pink trousers rolled up :)
  • Printed pants.
  • Maxing out the patterns in the warm weather in my tribal skirt and old favourite Zara dress
  • Peach Fizz for my nails, wearing Chanel Orange Fizz under Deborah Lippmann‘s ‘Glitter in the Air’.
  • Yellow and navy for work.
  • Weekend casual for a trip to Dunham Massey with our niece and family. (And the x100!)
  • Polka dots and patent pumps for work.
  • Braving out the pink trousers and red Hunters clash for a weekend walk in the rain.
  • Loving the Olympics and being very sad when the closing ceremony brought things to a close.
  • Enjoying the light nights and warm weather mid-month.
  • Get a hair cut!
  • Fabric shopping for craft projects
  • Obsessing over the gorgeous moody shades in these hydrangeas
  • Starting the London Fashion Week planning.
  • Visiting the Southport Flower Show
  • A long walk in one of my favourite places – Kirby Lonsdale (Devils bridge and the River Lune shown here)
  • And a cute message from my husband… proving that sometimes all you need is an ‘Olive you’. :)
Love,
Rebecca
xo

VOTE!

I’m republishing this post for the weekend because it’s been three weeks since I last asked for your support in voting for Florence Finds in the Cosmo Blog awards. I REALLY need your votes readers, so if you haven’t already, please please please head on over (links at the bottom) and cast your vote. Thank you!!

PS Don’t forget there’s still time to win The Surf Cafe Cookbook too as a thank you from me – there are 2 up for grabs and voting is open until tomorrow evening.

Today I have a little news to share that some of you might have heard already if you follow me on Twitter, but I can’t help myself from shouting it from the rooftops. Florence Finds has been nominated in the Cosmo blog awards!

The news filtered through on Twitter on Monday that I was shortlisted for the Lifestyle category and then I received an email from Next about their Newcomer blog award. In my excitement I was also a little confused but after an email conversation with the team at Next it turned out there was no mistake, Florence Finds had been nominated twice!

*cue me falling off my blogging chair whilst hyperventilating and several excited emails to Gemma.

You might recall me asking for nominations for these awards a couple of months back and I really did it thinking nothing ventured, nothing gained. To actually be shortlisted is beyond exciting, and to have made it onto two shortlists from thousands of entries, well, that is frankly mind blowing.

So now I need your help. The winners are decided based on 50% public vote and 50% the Cosmo judging panel, made up of Cosmo editors. I need every single one of you reading to vote for Florence Finds, I just need 2 clicks and the links are right here:

I would be so grateful if you could do this for me, and spread the word via your twitter account, post a link on your Facebook, hell, even blog about it if you can. Tell your friends, the guy at the bus stop, the taxi driver, if you happen to own a light aircraft I’d be much obliged if you could write it across the sky… ;) Who knows if anything will come of it, but just being nominated, particularly when starting a new lifestyle blog almost seems pointless amongst the wealth of talent and success that is out there, has been such an amazing feeling. I’ve never been so proud of Florence Finds and that goes not just for my efforts but those who contribute to it monthly and occasionally too, you all deserve to be proud of this nomination too… Becky, Penny, Rachel, Jess and of course Gemma.

I hope it’s an inspiration to those of you with small blogs. You know what they say, the only way is up!

Now go vote, please!

Love,
Rebecca
xo

PS In case you’re interested or looking for some new reads… here’s the competition ;)

Lifestyle Category
A Thrifty Mrs // AFROBLUSH // Ballet pumps and Roses // Beautiful Clutter // Beyond the Bathroom scales // Chronic Katie // Domestic Sluttery // Ella Masters // Fizz and Tattle // Girl lost in the City // Into the Blonde // Kim Willis // Love Mealie // Milk and Honey // The World of Kitsch // Three Bad Mice // Trends with Benefits // Velo City Girl // Vintage Folly

Next Newcomers Award
A Day in the life of Ems // Trends with Benefits // Hommes de Femmes // Scarlett London // Nat Bees Fashion // Lola in the Lounge // Reasons to be cheerful // Dolls are United // Megs Budget Boutique // Fashion Mixbag // Outside Beauty, Inside Health // Pink Manolos // Charlestown Vintage // Sophie Says

My Month… July [The Fashion]

I thought I’d do this months Instagram round up a little differently and focus on one area of my images as when I looked back, I realised they fall into distinct groups of fashion or outfit shots, food and my life behind the scenes. Maybe I’ll share another group next week…

For now though, here’s what Flo wore in July…

Row 1: French Connection dress [work outfit] // French Connection top and bright flats [work outfit] // New brogues
Row 2: Whistles big spot blouse [sale purchase] // Zara gold thread blouse [sale] // GAP polka spot blouse
Row 3: What to Wear // Wide leg jeans and striped tee [sale] // Accessorize glitzy bee and fox rings
Row 4: Whistles Angel jumper with blue jeans and parka // The Dream. Find. Do. wardrobe department // New patterned Topshop trousers for summer [sale]
Row 5: Zara Frill bottom top for hot days [work outfit] [sale] // French Connection skirt [sale] // Sunday outfit in chambray and converse with the x100.

So, I’ll tell you my favourite, if you tell me yours?

Love,
Rebecca
xo

Outside, looking in…

Good morning readers!

In a bit of a departure from the norm, and because I have a stinking cold that meant I spent last night (after a particularly draining day at work,) on the sofa instead of photographing the bits and pieces I needed for today’s scheduled post, I thought I would turn Florence Finds over to you this morning.

It has been just short of 8 months since Florence Finds launched, feet first, 2 posts a day, into your blogosphere. Since then some things have changed… I started my outfit posts for example, and others remain the same, last week’s friday frock was the 38th so far, never missing a week.

Right now I feel like I’m at a cross roads in my life. I have big career decisions to make that may impact on the blog and a very exciting new project in the pipeline that I’ll be revealing very soon. There are changes that I would like to make to the blog and things that I’m mulling over. All a bit cryptic I know, but I can’t say much more with certainty just yet. I feel like the blog has reached the point at which it needs refining, maybe some features need to head gracefully into retirement, with new ones taking their place. Florence Finds is always evolving as the extension of my life that it is.

There are many of you I know that are hard core fans of Florence Finds and I’m eternally grateful for the support you give, but this morning I’d love to hear if there’s anything that Florence Finds is missing, something you wish I would cover, or think Florence Finds would be especially good at. Is there something that makes Florence Finds stand out to you, as different to the other blogs? Something you would hate to see go? It’s easy for me to feel where I think Florence Finds is going, but sometimes it’s harder from the inside to see out and what I really want to know is what people see with fresh eyes when they are looking in.

It’s been too long since I was out there, amongst my readers, talking to you and hearing your thoughts. So this morning make a cup of tea, have a think over what I have written and let’s hear what you have all got to say.

Thank you :)

Love,
Rebecca
xo

My Month…

It’s time already for what many of you say is one of your favourite posts and actually, it’s starting to become mine too. Looking back through the month, seeing the beauty in ordinary things day to day and sharing my favourite finds of course is what Florence Finds is all about so without further ado, I give you May… via my Instagram feed.

  • Charlie cat washing his spotty tummy on the bed with me.
  • My bank holiday morning view from bed.
  • New Nails, in Nails Inc Henley Regatta, a sheer juicy strawberry scented shade. I thought it was a bit of a gimmick but the smell is such a refreshing change from the usual nasty polish smell and the sheer shade is really pretty.
  • Getting all my clothes out on a rail to help streamline my packing before holiday. Yes, I actually do this. Yes, it really helps. (I also make a packing list.)
  • Bank Holiday Monday walk outfit.
  • New bargain costume jewels and sparkle for holiday – between £1-3 from Miss Selfridge so no fear of ruining them at the pool!
  • Plane outfit number 1: H&M striped tunic jumper, Warehouse blue jeans, Nude Dune flats and my Bayswater.
  • The simply awe-inspiring Yosemite Valley.
  • 3 shots of the cutest ever B&B we stayed at in Kernville, on route between Sequoia and Death Valley National Parks. Super cute and cosy with the best breakfast ever. (Get the Baked French Toast recipe here)
  • Badwater basin and the salt flats in the setting sun at 106 degrees in Death Valley.
  • Wild west store fronts, also in Death Valley.
  • That dress, on our first night in Vegas baby!
  • The Wynn hotel from the Encore pool.
  • Vegas seemed to basically be about eating and shows. Aberdeen Angus Robutoyaki at Mizumi (at the Wynn) for our anniversary, Le Reve show on night #2 and the all-you-can-eat buffet on our last day… crab legs seemed to be the thing to have.
  • New sunglasses from Banana Republic – loving the oversized blacked out glamour look.
  • The amazing pool scene at Encore.
  • Flouro clash outfit for the plane journey home: French Connection neon yellow oversized shirt, Leggings, gold Dune flats, my fuschia Bayswater and neon orange toes, courtesy of Nails Inc Portobello Road.
  • Back in Blighty, jazzing up my work outfit the first day back with a neon pink and diamante necklace (Miss Selfridge) against a fifties chic sleeveless lemon J.Crew blouse.
  • The David Austin roses blooming to greet us on our return.
It was an epic month, do let me know what happened in your month, or if there’s anything you love here :)
Much of May’s round up is a sneak peek into our holiday but I have so much more to write about, I’m going to drip feed it – don’t want you getting bored!
Love,
Rebecca
xo