I’m doing this month’s book club differently – first up, you’ll see the book that is suggested or recommended reading for the next 2 months and below it you will find the review of the book we’re closing this month.
Do join in if you have read or would like to read either of them – as always, your comments are what keeps the blog ticking over, so wade on in!
This months book, Backwards in High Heels: The Impossible Art of Being Female is introduced by Anna, so give her a warm welcome!

Do you ever glance over your book collection and feel utter joy at the rediscovery of something you’ve not read in a while?
I do, and did very recently. After doing a little dance around the living room, and settling of the sofa for some P & Q reading time, I felt compelled to share my book with you.
Backwards in High Heels: The Impossible Art of Being Female is written by the immensely talented Tania Kindersley (who has published several novels and writes for The Times, The Spectator and The Guardian) and Sarah Vine (writer and editor at The Times, and wife of Michael Gove (slightly irrelevant but good for your general knowledge)).
It claims not to be a ‘How To manual’. Indeed it is not, its whole raison d’être is to encourage the reader to challenge the shoulds and should nots (we feel) society impresses on us. It contains insightful and witty chapters on pretty much every topic over which women today might find themselves lamenting; love, career, health, money, grief, age and beauty to name but a few.
The writing style is intelligent and succinct as well as being I-must-ring-a-friend-to-share funny. I think, however what I love most about this book is the authors’ passion over certain topics. For instance, they argue vehemently against the size zero cult, suggesting that ‘the Pankhursts were too busy battling for emancipation to worry about the evils of a cream cake’. They are real women, writing about real issues in real life.
Great care is taken to portray a balanced view with the idea that there is no right and wrong way to do things. As modern women today find themselves caught up in an internal (as well as a very public) debate over working and family life, the idea of ‘having it all’ is explored. Equal attention is given to having a career, not having a career, (gasp) not working at all, having children, not having children…the message is bold, loud and proud – only you are qualified to decide how to live your life.
You might not want to sit down and read this book cover to cover. It’s perfect for dipping in and out of, especially when you’re faced (as we all are at some point) with a niggling feeling over a particular issue. It’s the literary equivalent of phoning a friend for a chat, and will leave you with the same warm feeling that life is ok, that you are doing ok.
The Review: Sacred Hearts. – With thanks to Jo Norman
For those of you that persevered with Sacred Hearts by Sarah Dunant I hope you’re glad that you did? I wonder if, like me, it took you a while to really appreciate this book but by the end couldn’t wait to find out what would happen to all the characters.
Sacred Hearts takes place inside the Benedictine cloister of Santa Caterina, in 16th-century Ferrara, and the character who is the main focus is sixteen year old Seraphina sent to the convent as her father doesn’t have enough money for a dowry for his two daughters. Seraphina however is in love with her music tutor and is determined not to comply with the rules of the convent. Her sense of anguish at her separation from an unsuitable suitor and her determination to ‘beat the system’ had so many parallels with modern times. She had more than a hint of stroppy teenage girl about her! She goes from childlike to lovelorn, from loving to scheming but in the end has to rely on her friend and confidante to help her.

I thought it was interesting that initially I thought how awful that these poor unfortunate women would be sent to a convent against their will, but given the choice between marriage to a stranger or being cloistered, maybe the convent wasn’t such a bad choice for some. Sister Zuana, who befriends and helps Seraphina, could certainly never have practiced her medicine on the outside and for her the convent was probably the best life she could have.
The story also delves into the political nature of religious life for women. I went to a Catholic school and before I went I thought that all the nuns were bound to be lovely, kind and gentle. How naïve! Convents are exactly the same as any community, you have strong characters, weak characters, those that manipulate and those that are genuinely kind-hearted. I think this book has parallels to many small modern communities or perhaps offices?
I hope you found this book to be a timeless story of love but more importantly a story of friendship – the happiness, sadness, loss and love.
Once again, if you have a book to recommend to the Book Club and Florence’s readers, do get in touch on hello@florencefinds.com
Love,
Rebecca
xo